Married Life...

..for me is a huge adjustment who used to living alone.
Before, I enjoy strolling the mall without thinking about time( if I go home late or not) coz nobody will be waiting at home. I can go to parties alone and the excitement of dating guys is tremendous, nobody will get mad. I can also be spontaneous in making decisions, I have only myself to consider.
But now, I have to get permission to go to the mall. Shopping gets done for only an hour or two. Partying alone and the feeling of dating guys are all gone. In decision making, I'm not as spontaneous as before..there are many things to consider now. Deciding to buy a new pair of shoes is not that simple anymore. Another negative thing is whether to leave the toilet seat up or down (this really ticks me off!) ...

Now you think that I'm whinning, no I am not...

Married life for me has it's advantages too as much as it has its drawbacks. There is someone there to share every experiences I have good or bad, and there is someone there to listen your corniest jokes but still find it cute.  I also landed myself with a buddy I can just hang out with and goof around with , and the real bonus is I got somebody who would be willing to eat my hideous cooking and still praise me even if he is obviously having a hard time swallowing the first bite :D. Oh, how I love him so!

I'm only been married for 3 months and I know there are more yet to come. I am not sure what the future holds for me but I have faith that God will always do the best for each one of us. Marriage could be stressful and hard sometimes, but for as long as both of you are willing to compromise and  communicate and put God in center of everything, there is nothing better in the world.